Recovery. Sobriety. Living Wise.
“Anything that’s human is mentionable, and anything that is mentionable can be more manageable. When we can talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting, and less scary. The people we trust with that important talk can help us know that we are not alone.” ― Fred Rogers I remember one undistinguished day many years ago when I was sick in bed with the … Continue reading Tribute to Mr. Rogers
I have collected a string of pearls on the topic of humility. If you linger a moment or two with each one, I think you might find truth that resonates. I know that was the case for me. I won’t add any commentary, but will let each pearl speak for itself. Pride is the illusion of separation. Humility … Continue reading A String of Pearls
Rites of passage in life can be a bit like crossing the monkey bars. Sometimes swinging from one stage to the next is as easy as crossing the street. Sometimes it’s like crossing the Grand Canyon on a tight rope. My friend Kieran’s story about his right of passage is one for ages. I’ve known Kieran for nearly 40 years he’s dear dear friend … Continue reading A Rite of Passage
“Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.” ~ Judy Garland Do you have a friend to go to when you need a dose of unvarnished truth? A no-nonsense friend to: Provide you with an honest appraisal about …… you? Provide you with an “Honest to God” reality check? Provide you with the non-sugar-coated truth? This is important today when we’re getting our … Continue reading No-Nonsense Friends
In Birthmark, Nathaniel Hawthorne tells a riveting story of the destructive force of perfectionism. In his story, Aylmer, an accomplished chemist, had given up science to pursue Georgiana, the object of his love. He succeeds, and they are happy. But after a while, the crimson birthmark on Georgiana’s cheek begins to disgust Aylmer, making him shudder and flinch when he looks at it, and instead of seeing … Continue reading Progress not Perfection